The Only Constant is Change

Hello lovelies! Recently I watched a TED Talks videos entitled “The Psychology of Your Future Self”. I found the video interesting, but I didn’t think it had any profound impact on me until I got thinking about how much I actually have changed and developed over the past few years. If you’d like to watch the video before I continue, then here it is:

After watching this video I went and re-did a personality test online, which I last filled out three-to-four years ago whilst I was in high school. The website I used for this is, which has adapted the original test by Myers and Briggs to make the questions more flexible to answers and the results more accurate.

entjAfter taking the test, I was shocked to discover that my personality type has changed exponentially since the last time I had taken it. This shocked me because, although I have changed, I’m still the same person… or so I thought. In high school, my personality type was ENTJ (which stands for Extrovert, Intuitive, Thinking and Judging), which I was happy with. I remember completely identifying with the characteristics of that personality type at the time.

Now, my personality type is ENFP (Extrovert, Intuitive, Feeling and Prospecting). That’s a change of two out of the four letters, which means that the younger version of enfpmyself, and me now, handle and view things far differently. It took me a while to fully grasp the extent of this change. After all, in the space of a few short years I’ve managed to go from a “commander” to a “campaigner”.

When I was reading through the description of my new personality type, this sentence in particular made me laugh; “Their sensitivity may make it too challenging to play with more critical and argumentative personalities, such as strongly expressed Thinking (T) and Judging (J) types”. So, although my core personality traits are the same – being an extroverted and intuitive people’s person – I have become a far more caring, compassionate and understanding person. Even now, reading over the description of an ENTJ, I can tell that I am no longer that person anymore and I’m completely okay with that. I suppose it’s true that experiences and people can shape who you are as a person.

15 year old me (left) and 18 year old me (right)

I suppose I just wanted to share this with you all because I find the concept of personality changes very interesting. Why don’t you guys take the personality test and let me know if you agree with the type you get? Also, do you think you’ve changed over the years, as I have?shannon

10 thoughts on “The Only Constant is Change

  1. I’ve taken the personality test several times throughout my life and it has stayed the same (INFP). But I think I’ll take it again at the end of this year because I’ve just gone through a few major changes in my life and would love to see how it can affect my personality! I find the topic of personalities extremely interesting so thanks for sharing the video!

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  2. I got INFP it would have been interesting to see what the change from younger years to now would have been, but I would like to do it again in the future and see how much of a change there is then, cool post 🙂

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  3. I really think there is something to the Myers-Briggs, which I have taken over the years and continually come up with INFP. I just took this one and again got INFP.

    How fascinating that in just three short years you have changed so much! I think these kinds of tests can give us so much information about ourselves and be very helpful. So thanks for putting this out there!

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  4. This is so true, I took the test while in high school and was an INTJ (Architect) to ENTJ (Commander). This resonated with me since I feel like my confidence and true extrovert has come out during my years in college. I agree that it is so interesting to see how personalities can be shaped and molded with experience and new relationships!

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